Should men relinquish their seats? women on the Tube ?
It’s a controversy that haunts the TFL network , making us question whether extending a seat would be seen as a gesture of goodwill or as an affront.
History will recount that it’s what ' gentlemen While 'should do' might suffice, even though the term "gentleman" dates back to medieval times, it could be considered an outdated notion today. In our quest for equality, shouldn’t both men and women have equal claim to such courtesies as taking a seat?
To answer the question, Mountaintraveller solicited input from the general populace. Here’s what they shared...
Certainly... Gentlemen should yield their seats.
First, we have 25-year-old Ryan, who thinks that indeed, men ought to yield their seats to women on the train.
He tells Mountaintraveller It’s all about being kind. Women face misogyny and inequity, so it’s crucial for men to show acts of kindness toward women since I acknowledge that not every man behaves properly.
When I have the chance to be generous, I use it to offer my seat because many men wouldn’t do so. This way, that woman doesn’t have to stand in the middle of the subway.
Dean Blackstock, 44, concurred, stating: "Absolutely, count me in. While chivalry might not be the fitting term for our times, courtesy surely is. There’s nothing improper about extending an offer of your seat to a woman when the train car is crowded."
If she decides to remain standing, at least the offer has been made and it’s up to her. If neither of you takes the initiative, you both miss out, so why not be courteous, offer your seat, and possibly brighten someone's day!
It's not only the men who believe offering a seat should be customary; some women share this view as well.
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Eimear Draper, who is 42 years old, shares her perspective: "I am a proud owner of feminist t-shirts, and I firmly believe in these values. We can uphold traditional manners and courtesy while also advocating for fair compensation and equal pay."
'Men generally have more physical strength, whereas women might deal with invisible discomfort... Menstruation, early pregnancy, and recovery from C-section incisions.'
‘During my pregnancy Even though I had both a bump and a "baby on board" sticker, I often needed to request someone to offer me their seat. After having an unpleasant encounter with a male passenger, I usually approached female passengers instead. 'It's simply more courteous,' she said.
Louisa Guise stated: "It should not be compulsory for men to yield their seats to women at all, but it certainly reflects well on them if they choose to do so."
'Women tend to utilize public transportation for various daily errands and tasks, while men usually make direct trips to and from work. This suggests that women should be prioritized.'
No... Men shouldn't relinquish their seats.
However, there are also numerous individuals on the opposite side, as a matter of fact, our reactions were evenly divided.
Polly Arrowsmith, 58, tells Mountaintraveller She never assumes a man will surrender his seat for someone else. just Because they're female. "Sometimes, a young man might stand up and offer me his seat, which I always decline if suggested," she explains. "While I appreciate it greatly, I feel uneasy since I'm still quite fit and healthy."
Susan Bonnar concurred, stating: "There's no logical basis for a 25-year-old man to yield his seat to a 25-year-old woman! If we're striving for gender equality, such practices must be relegated to history. Reserving seats according to gender suggests that women are considered less capable."
Jenny O'Brien, aged 60, shares this observation: "A friend of mine, who is in her forties, felt quite annoyed when an older gentleman offered her his seat on the subway. She has embraced letting her hair turn gray and now sports a chic pixie cut which makes her look fantastic. The issue was that he appeared considerably more senior than she does."
Kylee Seal Dickinson has stated that she would be insulted if someone offered her a seat, presuming it's because they believe she might be pregnant.
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The pregnancy debate…
Mothers-to-be experience nausea, dizziness and exhaustion – not to mention the anxiety of having your bump knocked in rush hour. But for some, this isn’t a good enough reason to offer a priority seat.
TikToker Mona Mali posted her experience being heavily pregnant and no men giving up the priority seats they were sat in – and it went viral.
Nevertheless, the remarks stated: 'Calm down, I just finished a 13-hour shift, I'm going to rest now, sorry' and 'Nobody owes you their seat.'
A different expectant mother (@s.cxox) posted a comparable clip, but the remarks beneath her post were even more distressing.
“Should have hit someone with a car,” one message said, while another commented: “I’m sorry, but did I agree to having children?”
Is it appropriate for men to yield their seats to women on the subway?
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Yes
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No
An even split…
Sadly, opinions vary widely within society regarding whether a man should relinquish his seat or not, hence we can't provide you with a definitive answer.
Additionally, there is insufficient regard shown towards the priority seats—seats that ought to be offered to individuals who find standing challenging, such as expectant mothers, older people, or those with disabilities.
Even this protocol for both genders and It appears that women may have passed away.
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